Season 3

Ep 43: He Buried His Childhood Pain. A College Paper Brought it Back.

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Run to the Hard
September 24, 2026
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He Buried His Childhood Pain.

A college assignment asked R.D. Saunders to write about his family. It brought years of childhood hurt to the surface—and a decision:

“I will not be a bad father.

”R.D. grew up with an abusive father who struggled with alcoholism. In this conversation with Curtis Christopher, he shares how God began a work of healing in a college dorm room—and why he later returned to lead that same school, Ohio Christian University.

They talk honestly about buried pain, grief, the people who help us heal, and the responsibility of helping others. R.D. also explains why he initially said no to the presidency and how his own story shapes the way he wants to serve students.

IN THIS CONVERSATION:

The grandfather who became the father figure R.D. needed.

The college paper that brought his childhood pain to the surface.

The emotional “junk drawer” where we hide unresolved hurt.

How Michal’s example helped Curtis begin serving others after her death.

Leaving a comfortable life to accept a difficult calling.

Isaiah 61, “oaks of righteousness,” and helping students grow.

Listening with humility instead of assuming we understand someone’s grief.

Run to the Hard shares stories of grief, healing, faith, and what people do with the hard things they experience.

Hosted by Curtis Christopher and dedicated to the loving memory of Michal Christopher, the show carries forward her call to “run to the hard, run to the hurt.

”Subscribe for more conversations about facing hard things, receiving help, and moving forward in faith.

Share this episode with someone whose past still weighs on them—or someone learning how to walk beside a hurting friend.

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CHAPTERS

00:31 Meet R.D. Saunders

05:36 An abusive father—and the grandfather who showed up

09:46 The college paper that brought the hurt to the surface

12:11 What helped Curtis begin helping others?

17:46 The “junk drawer” of buried pain

21:31 Why R.D. initially said no to the presidency

24:01 Isaiah 61 and the mission to help hurting people grow

34:36 Turning a campus vision into practical help

44:26 Your experience does not make you an expert in someone else’s grief

48:21 Shelley’s role in the calling

53:21 R.D.’s vision for OCU and Oaks Church

59:11 Why Curtis is returning to these hard conversations

1:02:51 A prayer for those who are hurting

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Episode Transcript

RD Saunders: [00:00:01] Your pain is not purposelessness. Your [00:00:06] pain has a purpose. And the work of the Lord is [00:00:11] tied to delivering people from brokenness, from hurt, [00:00:16] from despair, and from mourning.​Curtis: [00:00:21] [00:00:26] [00:00:31] Hi, everybody. [00:00:36] Welcome to the Run to the Hard Podcast. Today, I get to interview my friend, [00:00:41] and, uh, this gentleman I've had the chance to meet, and we've connected with several [00:00:46] times over the years through academics, through leadership programs. But over the last year, [00:00:51] um, this man has become my friend, and, uh, he is just one of those guys [00:00:56] that is motivational, he's inspiring, and I love to hang out with him.Curtis: Every time [00:01:01] I'm with him, I get so jazzed up that I feel like I can just run [00:01:06] through a wall, and, uh, that's the kind of guy he is, and I love to hang out with him. So today my [00:01:11] guest is Artie Saunders. He's the president from Ohio Christian University. And Artie, [00:01:16] love you, appreciate you. Welcome to the program.RD Saunders: Curtis, you are too kind. [00:01:21] Listen, I'm the blessed one in this conversation and in this [00:01:26] relationship, my friend. You, anyone who has Curtis Christopher as a friend [00:01:31] is among the most fortunate people in the world. SoCurtis: OhRD Saunders: I'm the blessed [00:01:36] one, and it's truly an honor to be on the "Run to the Hard" podcast. [00:01:41] Uh, I love your vision, your focus.RD Saunders: I love the audience you're [00:01:46] trying to serve, and it is a privilege to be a part of itCurtis: Well, [00:01:51] thank you. I appreciate it. Wasn't expecting that back. You're supposed to let me up you up here a [00:01:56] littleRD Saunders: I thought that's what you told me to say, Curtis. I thought I got it just right[00:02:01] Curtis: Oh, man. Hey, before we get started, uh, let me just share a couple, couple things [00:02:06] about RD. Uh, I messaged his office a couple weeks ago and said, "Hey, let me, let me have [00:02:11] a bio for RD." Well, he texted me back, and this was his response. He said, [00:02:16] "You can share what you want, but a good friend of mine, a good mentor said, 'If you're good, you don't [00:02:21] need a good introduction.'"Curtis: He said, "But if you're bad, a good introduction doesn't help anyways." [00:02:26] And I just-- It g- I, I'm sorry, it cracked me up. I thought that was the best. [00:02:31] Uh, but either way, I'm still g- you're-- It's not gonna be bad, folks, I promise. But I'm still gonna give a [00:02:36] little bit of a bio. Uh, RD Saunders, um, married to his [00:02:41] wonderful wife, Shelly.Curtis: She was his, um, college sweetheart. And, uh, if any of you [00:02:46] have had the privilege of meeting Shelly, you cannot walk away without a smile on your face. It's just impossible. [00:02:51] She's an amazing woman. Together, these two are a powerhouse. Um, I [00:02:56] love to be around them. Um, married, two children, two boys, Landon and Logan, [00:03:01] and a grandchild on the way.Curtis: Woo-hoo. It, it's the best, [00:03:06] dude. I mean, it is the best, I promise you. And I kn- I know you already know [00:03:11] that. RD pastored for 22 years in Ohio, Florida, [00:03:16] Georgia. RD followed a lot of the models and disciplines of, uh, John [00:03:21] Maxwell through his leadership programs, his church growth, and principles, and [00:03:26] has grown every one of those ministries, added to those ministries, and sometimes [00:03:31] doubled, tripled, quadrupled some of those churches.Curtis: And then had the privilege of actually [00:03:36] serving John Maxwell and the Equip team as an associate trainer for many [00:03:41] years, then became part of Network of Caring and Leading With 2020 Vision, [00:03:46] where they've had the chance to literally impact hundreds of thousands of people [00:03:51] around the world. So this is, this is big stuff, folks.Curtis: Uh, [00:03:56] 2017, RD was the vice president of advancement for Maxwell and for Equip, [00:04:01] raising a bunch of money for that ministry, and that ministry continues to thrive. There's still books [00:04:06] being written. There's still people being impacted for Christ. But in 2024, [00:04:11] your world changed forever. [00:04:16] And RD was called and voted on to become the [00:04:21] next president of Ohio Christian University.Curtis: And, uh, I want you to know we love you. We pray for you. I [00:04:26] literally drive by the campus two or three times a day, and every time I do, you just need to know that you're in our [00:04:31] thoughts and prayers, and we love you. And, um, I am going to, um, [00:04:36] sit back. Folks, I literally have my own notepad, just so [00:04:41] you know, and if you don't have one, you might wanna grab one, because every time that I've sat in the [00:04:46] presence of this guy, whether it's in his office or in a revival where he's preaching or in his chapel, [00:04:51] there's always something that I've gleaned from it and walked away with and said, "Man, never [00:04:56] thought of that before.Curtis: What a great lesson."Curtis: And so, um- Before you [00:05:01] dive into your calling and the things that God's really doing in your life right now, I think it's [00:05:06] important for people to truly get a concept of a person if they know where that [00:05:11] person's come from. I just feel like it's a, a holistic approach, and so I'd love for you to [00:05:16] share a little bit about your childhood, your upbringing and how in the world you ever ended up at [00:05:21] Ohio Christian University in this little town called Circleville, Ohio, [00:05:26] for your college career.Curtis: And so I'm gonna turn it over, man. The mic is yours. [00:05:31] Please take us on an adventureRD Saunders: Oh, you're very kind, Curtis. I, I [00:05:36] hope that, uh, that happens. But, uh, here's, here's the truth. I grew [00:05:41] up in Lancaster, Ohio, just down the road from where we are here in Circleville. [00:05:46] And, uh, while I had some godly influences, they weren't [00:05:51] directly in the home I grew up in. In fact, my father, sadly, was an [00:05:56] alcoholic, and, uh, in many ways an abusive alcoholic.RD Saunders: [00:06:01] And, uh, eventually he drank himself, um, out of jobs. He drank [00:06:06] himself, uh, out of our home. And sadly, at 54, he drank himself [00:06:11] out of his own life. And so I honestly look back on it and I [00:06:16] find blessing in it in the sense that it opened the door for my grandfather to come into [00:06:21] my life. And my grandfather was everything maybe that [00:06:26] I'd hoped my father would be.RD Saunders: Uh, he was a pleasure to be with. He taught me [00:06:31] all kinds of things. He, uh, worked hard and, and even came home and threw the [00:06:36] football with me every day. And, uh, he was frankly my best [00:06:41] friend as a young person. And, uh, so really grateful, in [00:06:46] spite of the, the things that might have caused pain, might be a source of mourning in [00:06:51] my life.RD Saunders: Uh, the Lord took that bad thing and made it something very good. [00:06:56] And, and frankly, it's the influence of my grandfather and my grandmother, my grandmother's [00:07:01] sister, my great aunt That helped me to eventually become a student here at [00:07:06] Circleville Bible College back in the day, now Ohio Christian University.RD Saunders: And, [00:07:11] uh, I have to give the Lord all kinds of, uh, praise for that fact [00:07:16] because I never had any intention of going to a place like OCU. Uh, [00:07:21] I had a vision of somehow being involved in [00:07:26] either education or maybe even in politics. I was gonna go to Ohio [00:07:31] State. I was gonna study poli sci. What a useless endeavor that would've [00:07:36] been.RD Saunders: No offense to anyone listening who does that kind of work, but in my case, I think it [00:07:41] would've been useless. But, um, the Lord had another plan. I, I [00:07:46] grew up singing gospel music, and so because I was traveling and singing, I was [00:07:51] perpetually in a culture that was wholesome and where I felt like I was [00:07:56] giving back in some way.RD Saunders: But, uh, you know, the Lord wanted to narrow the [00:08:01] focus of a calling or, or at least help me to understand something beyond [00:08:06] what I thought was ministry, and that's singing in a church. A- and that was a very [00:08:11] clear calling in my senior year of high school to full-time Christian service. [00:08:16] And, uh, someone wisely told me that a call to serve is a call [00:08:21] to prepare.RD Saunders: And before the Lord calls you into [00:08:26] his field that is white and ripe unto harvest, he calls you [00:08:31] to prepare yourself to do that. And Jesus, of course, spent [00:08:36] considerable years preparing himself. Luke 2:52 lays it out. Jesus grew in [00:08:41] wisdom, stature, favor with God, and favor with man. And if we're going to [00:08:46] have an impact in the world, we've, we've gotta grow.RD Saunders: And so thankfully, because of their [00:08:51] influence, they were connected with the church camp that many years ago [00:08:56] founded this university. And so we would go to that church camp, and I heard about [00:09:01] Ohio Christian University at that camp, and it just seemed very natural for me to [00:09:06] pay them a visit. And sure enough, uh, because of the influence of someone that many of your [00:09:11] audience may know, Doug Carter, uh, who was the president of Circleville Bible College at [00:09:16] that time, I became a student at CBC, now OCU.[00:09:21] RD Saunders: And I'm truly grateful because there was a work that God did in [00:09:26] my life on this campus that had a great deal to do with my childhood, and [00:09:31] if I hadn't come here, I don't know if that work would've happened. Uh, not to mention the fact that [00:09:36] I met my wife, I met some lifelong influencers. I grew i- [00:09:41] in ways I can't even add up and quantify today.RD Saunders: But most [00:09:46] especially, being at OCU, there was a moment that God had [00:09:51] arranged, there's no question in my mind that God had positioned, [00:09:56] I was challenged to write a paper for an English class, and so I [00:10:01] didn't even see what was coming, coming. I started to write. We [00:10:06] were told to write something about our families.RD Saunders: It was meant to be biographical. [00:10:11] And that process of thinking about the [00:10:16] childhood that I had and, and maybe in some ways didn't have, and the, the [00:10:21] heartache and, and pain and even abuse that I experienced, the Lord [00:10:26] had prepared that moment to completely wash me [00:10:31] and deliver me from the hurt, the mourning, [00:10:36] the ashes, if you will, of those broken things in my [00:10:41] life.RD Saunders: And the work wasn't completed, but I [00:10:46] could say maybe that the work was begun in earnest of, of helping [00:10:51] me get over the pain of that And looking [00:10:56] back on it, I, I owe OCU so much. You know, my education, my [00:11:01] career, my wife. But frankly, one of the greatest things was [00:11:06] the healing of the pain of my past that was at least [00:11:11] begun in that dorm room here right on the campus.RD Saunders: Just, I can look out the window of [00:11:16] my office here at OCU and see the window that I sat in front of as, [00:11:21] as God began to work, and, and the, the, the work was overwhelming. [00:11:26] I, I wept, I grieved. Uh, I remember gritting my [00:11:31] teeth at one point and saying, "I will not be a bad father." I, I was a long [00:11:36] way from being a father at that point.RD Saunders: I didn't even really have a girlfriend, much less a wife and, and children. [00:11:41] But, uh, I, I remember saying to myself in that moment, "I will not [00:11:46] be a bad father." And, and I was, I was far from perfect. I don't know anyone but our [00:11:51] heavenly Father who's a perfect father. But, uh, I believe my sons would tell you that, [00:11:56] that they had a good dad.RD Saunders: And so I, I thank the Lord for that moment of, of [00:12:01] healing in my life, and it's certainly what inspires me about what you're doing, Curtis, [00:12:06] and, and this podcast and, and your ministry. Uh, in fact, [00:12:11] at some point, maybe now, I, I have a question for you,RD Saunders: Okay.RD Saunders: And I, [00:12:16] I know-- and you may wanna jump back into my story, but I've got this question that, that's [00:12:21] just...RD Saunders: It's been on my mind because every person who's been through the kind [00:12:26] of, of grief that you've experienced and the mourning that you've had to endure, [00:12:31] um, many of those people are, are kind of stuck. [00:12:36] And, and I'm not saying that you should, 'cause, uh, uh, there's many unkind people [00:12:41] that tell someone in mourning, "Well, you just need to get over it."RD Saunders: And I-- it's just so, so awful [00:12:46] to say something like that to someone who's mourning. But at some point, Curtis, [00:12:51] there was an aha moment or, or whatever it was, where you said, [00:12:56] "I need to now help someone else." And I [00:13:01] was just curious, and, and it's possible that your audience knows well the answer to this and I've just [00:13:06] missed it somewhere, but I would love to hear what was the thing that caused [00:13:11] you to move?RD Saunders: Not that you move ever away from, from sadness or mourning or grief, [00:13:16] but you moved into a mode of looking outside of yourself to [00:13:21] others. A-and what was the thing that, that kind of launched that in your life?[00:13:26] Curtis: I, it's a, it's a really good question. And, um, [00:13:31] there's, there's a few answers, but I know this podcast is about you, but let me give you just a couple. Number [00:13:36] one, yeah, I was, I was broke. When my wife passed away, I laid in bed for three months, [00:13:41] 20 hours a day. I mean, I've told that multiple times. I had to get physical [00:13:46] medical help to get out of bed and get back on my feet.Curtis: But you're right. There's, [00:13:51] um, there's this moment, this aha moment where I had to [00:13:56] figure out how to get out of my own way. And, and it goes back to why we even do the [00:14:01] podcast. It's why we have a foundation. My wife Michal loved [00:14:06] people so much, and it didn't matter what hardship she had been through, she made time [00:14:11] for people.Curtis: She listened to their stories. She got to know them. She'd come home and tell me these [00:14:16] awful stories of some woman she met literally in the grocery store two days before and was [00:14:21] having coffee with and was trying to help them through a struggle, through the loss of a kid, through a [00:14:26] divorce, whatever. My wife modeled this.Curtis: She modeled this, [00:14:31] "I'm going to help somebody else because it's this, it's this way of getting [00:14:36] out of my own situation." It pulls you out of your own grief, out of your own stuckness, as you [00:14:41] said. And, um, I, I over the course of a year and a half or so [00:14:46] realized that I'm not gonna get out of this thing until I can start helping others.Curtis: And, [00:14:51] um, it wasn't easy. I'm, I'll be honest with you, I fought it. I didn't wanna do it. I just would rather [00:14:56] hang out at home, hide away, and I did. I hid for quite a while after she passed away. [00:15:01] But then through the help of people who love me and who've prayed for me and said-- and, and [00:15:06] reached in and said, "No, Curtis, God has more-"RD Saunders: [00:15:11] Way to go, buddy. Way to go. Yeah, I think [00:15:16] that transition, and, and the reason I ask it there, is that transition began to [00:15:21] happen in my own life. Uh, I began to recognize that the [00:15:26] problems and the heartaches that I had, the, the unfairness, the [00:15:31] disappointment, the abuse, was something that the Lord could take, much [00:15:36] like Moses' staff, and turn it into a tool, turn it into a [00:15:41] source of His power.RD Saunders: Not, not just or, or, or maybe not, [00:15:46] not completely a, a, a, a pain, but something that could [00:15:51] actually remove pain, remove my pain and someone else's pain [00:15:56] when I was able to get past it and, and then be able to use [00:16:01] it. And, and I'm sure people are in different stages of this right now on their ownRD Saunders: journey [00:16:06] with grief.RD Saunders: But, uh, thank you for, for taking that step, and, and that's a [00:16:11] big part of what you're, what you're doing with this podcast, and I hope everyone can find [00:16:16] a way to do something to, to get the focus on others. I think it's [00:16:21] naturally something the enemy wants us to do, is the enemy wants us to stay [00:16:26] down in what I call a mirrored hole.RD Saunders: A- a- and it's a, [00:16:31] a hole where we see nothing but ourself,RD Saunders: and, and we're [00:16:36] stuck down in this mirrored hole. And that's why I love Philippians 4 so [00:16:41] much, 'cause I believe Philippians 4 is the rope out of the mirrored hole. [00:16:46] Uh, you know, keep your, your focus because God is near. Uh, [00:16:51] if you got a worry, bring that to the Lord and let His peace overwhelm your worry.RD Saunders: If [00:16:56] there's any good things, if there be any virtue, think on these things,RD Saunders: and the God [00:17:01] of peace will be with you. And then, of course, it concludes with, "I can do all things through [00:17:06] Christ who gives me strength." Well, it's no wonder, because you're not living in that mirrored hole anymore. [00:17:11] You're operating in a, in an arena of, of strength and victoryRD Saunders: the [00:17:16] Lord is now helping you, uh, to be successful in spite of the, the pain that you may have [00:17:21] had.Curtis: Good stuff. AllCurtis: right, back to your story. [00:17:26] Yes, sir. Yes, sirCurtis: Little, little message, little [00:17:31] message in the Hey, thanks for letting me ask the question though, 'cause I, I was won- I don't thinkRD Saunders: I'd have [00:17:36] ever, I'd ever gotten that as many times as you and I've chatted, I don't think I'd ever gotten that answer. So [00:17:41] I, I had to get the answer.Curtis: Hmm. All right. Well, thank you.RD Saunders: Well, so [00:17:46] when, uh, when I had that, that moment of, of, um, of [00:17:51] recognition, I guess I, I think what happened there is I did not [00:17:56] know how in pain I was. I did [00:18:01] not know how much junk had been suppressed, [00:18:06] had been kind of ignored. I, I, I look at it like a junk drawer in your [00:18:11] house. You know, everyone's got a junk drawer where you just throw stuff and you... that you don't know what to [00:18:16] do with, you know? A- and I think sometimes our, our past hurts [00:18:21] find some kind of hurt drawer that we throw those [00:18:26] things into and, and we kinda, you know... Or, or even a room or a closet, and, a- [00:18:31] and we just don't go there. And I believe there's something about [00:18:36] going there that is the victory that, that God wants us to have.[00:18:41] RD Saunders: Uh, ignoring something, suppressing something, hiding something is not victory. [00:18:46] It's exposing it. It's getting it out. It's being aware of it. And, and [00:18:51] I recognize for some people, they're, they're gonna need some help to do that. They need to talk to someone who's a [00:18:56] pro. But in my case, I just had to allow the Lord, the Holy Spirit, [00:19:01] the God of all comfort, to dig down deep inside, [00:19:06] uh, in, in this dark place and, and let that [00:19:11] out.RD Saunders: And it, it, it did transform me, and it allowed for the future [00:19:16] transformations that I needed to have to become more complete, uh, what I call an oak [00:19:21] of righteousness, uh, to, to transpire in my lifeCurtis: Buddy, I just wrote [00:19:26] this down, junk drawer. You just gave, you just gave some pastor a sermon title. [00:19:31] I love it. I told you. I'm telling you folks, you're gonna get something today. [00:19:36] But, uh, I'm not a psychologist, but junk drawer should be in our [00:19:41] psychologist friend's vocabulary. I love it,RD Saunders: Well, you know, something that's true about the junk [00:19:46] drawer, Curtis, is that every so often you just, you have to go clean it out 'cause you have no more room.Curtis: [00:19:51] Yeah, exactly.RD Saunders: You know, it becomes a hoarding situation. And, and I wonder, [00:19:56] you know, I wonder how many people are hoarding hurts.Curtis: Hmm. Oh, RD Saunders: J- uh, mm, [00:20:01] remember when Jesus, uh, had the, the gentleman and he was obviously, you [00:20:06] know, in need of a miracle.RD Saunders: He had been laying there crippled, and Jesus literally [00:20:11] asks him, "What do you want me to do for you?" Well, Jesus, [00:20:16] can't you tell? The guy's severely in need. Yes, RD Saunders: but do you [00:20:21] wanna be free from that? Do you want to not use that anymore as a source of [00:20:26] attention, as a, as a reason for people to have to serve you, as a reason for you [00:20:31] not to have to act or have to serve?Curtis: or incomeRD Saunders: Or, oh boy, [00:20:36] that's a very good point. Yeah, he was getting an income. He was getting a living from it. [00:20:41] Um, you know, sometimes people are, are a little bit hung up on their pain [00:20:46] because, uh, they don't wanna, they, they don't wanna trade that pain [00:20:51] for whatever might be on the other side of it for fear of losing whatever [00:20:56] benefit they think they're getting from it. And I can assure you what's on the other side [00:21:01] is so much betterRD Saunders: than th- what you've settled [00:21:06] for allowing your pain to be your crutchCurtis: Man, that's good[00:21:11] RD Saunders: So we gotta, we gotta be honest about these things and, and [00:21:16] it's tough. I, I'm not saying it's easy. It wasn't for me. [00:21:21] Curtis: Okay, that's sermon number two. That's sermon number two if you're not counting, folks. [00:21:26] That's good. That'sRD Saunders: Oh my.Curtis: All right, so OCU [00:21:31] happens. You, uh, you get here, you have this moment. It's a starting point for you. [00:21:36] Uh, where does it go?RD Saunders: Well, it's so funny. I mean, I, [00:21:41] I've been here now, um, about 20 months and, uh, I remember when I [00:21:46] first arrived, uh, people would ask me about being a college president or some element [00:21:51] of academics, and I would say, "Honestly, I've been in academics about [00:21:56] 10 minutes." And, uh, n- you know, I've been in academics now about [00:22:01] 15 minutes, you know, and, still learning.RD Saunders: Probably the, the things [00:22:06] that opened the door for me to come were more relevant to things like leadership and [00:22:11] fundraising and that kind of thing, and plus my own personal connection here. But [00:22:16] the question that I had to process was not why the board wanted me to come or why [00:22:21] maybe some faculty members or even some students might have preferred that, but the [00:22:26] question that I had to resolve is, "God, why is this something at this season?"RD Saunders: [00:22:31] I mean, I was very comfortable where I was working for the, maybe the greatest [00:22:36] man in the world today in John Maxwell, uh, my dear friend, much like a father as [00:22:41] well to me, and we had had unbelievable success in that organization. [00:22:46] And we were living in Atlanta near our sons who, as I've mentioned, [00:22:51] or as you mentioned I should say, Curtis, we're about to have a grandchild.RD Saunders: And boy, you know, my, [00:22:56] my bride, uh, grandchildren, she's had a grandmother name for 10 years, so she's been looking forward to [00:23:01] this thing for a while. And, uh, I mean, we finally explained to our sons, "Listen, we [00:23:06] would like to have grandchildren before we're dead. Can you please, [00:23:11] please work this out?" You know? So we were heavily focused in the grandchildren [00:23:16] thing and, a- and then suddenly the Lord says, "No, it's time to go, you know, [00:23:21] 700 miles north to, to the middle of some cornfields and, and lead a [00:23:26] university that frankly has been struggling for a while and, and be in a different [00:23:31] world altogether.RD Saunders: And so, buddy, you better have a very clear definition of [00:23:36] why, and you better know it's of the Lord." So I initially, [00:23:41] uh, I had an interview and then I told them no.RD Saunders: And, uh, I [00:23:46] came back and I said, "Lord, if, if I'm to go here, you have to give me something that anchors [00:23:51] me." And the Lord is so good and so kind.RD Saunders: Even though He's already [00:23:56] spoken, He tolerates our indecision sometimes and our doubts, and, and He was [00:24:01] kind enough to give me something, and that's the incredible verse [00:24:06] that I-- You know, sometimes you read the Bible, and sometimes the Bible reads you. [00:24:11] And, uh, I had read the Bible, I had read Isaiah 61 before, but, I'd [00:24:16] never had it read to me like it was that day when I sought the Lord.RD Saunders: And [00:24:21] the Lord spoke to me. Isaiah 61 is the passage that Jesus read from [00:24:26] when He announced that He was the Messiah. By the way, don't let anyone ever tell you Jesus somehow got talked [00:24:31] into being the Messiah or He was forced into it by His fame. He said it from the very beginning, [00:24:36] so much so that those who initially heard it knew He had used a messianic passage in reference to [00:24:41] Himself and tried to stone Him.RD Saunders: So d- just get rid of this nonsense [00:24:46] about Jesus somehow being forced to become the Messiah. No, He said it from the beginning, [00:24:51] and He said it by reading Isaiah 61. And the passage talks about the work of the Messiah, [00:24:56] how the, the Lord is on me to preach and, and has anointed me to proclaim good news to [00:25:01] the poor, and all of these things, to bind up the brokenhearted, to proclaim freedom [00:25:06] to the captives, and release from darkness for the prisoners, and to proclaim the year of the Lord's [00:25:11] favor.RD Saunders: And He stopped there because the next verse talks about [00:25:16] vengeance, and, uh, He did not want His ministry to be seen as something that [00:25:21] was about vengeance. The vengeance will come one day, of course, at the Second Coming, but He's [00:25:26] talking here about the work He will do, the love He will share, the work He will [00:25:31] accomplish in people's lives.RD Saunders: But when it stops there, we pick it up in verse [00:25:36] three And I believe contextually this should still be considered as a part of [00:25:41] this passage, and I really believe that Jesus still had it in mind even though he didn't read it. [00:25:46] Because it goes on to say, "To comfort all who mourn RD Saunders: and [00:25:51] provide for those who grieve in Zion, to bestow on them a crown of [00:25:56] beauty instead of ashes, the oil of joy instead of mourning, and a garment of praise instead of [00:26:01] a spirit of despair.RD Saunders: They will be called oaks of righteousness, a [00:26:06] planting of the Lord for the display of his splendor." And the moment I read [00:26:11] that verse, I closed the Bible. I told Shelly, "Honey, I know [00:26:16] why we're to go to Ohio Christian University, and that is it is our job [00:26:21] to create good soil in that university for the planting of the [00:26:26] acorns that God plants there, that they might grow up to be oaks of [00:26:31] righteousness."RD Saunders: And if you look back, you have to say to yourself that one-- [00:26:36] a-and this is why what you're doing is very important, and this is also why the [00:26:41] audience that's listening to this, you have a mission. You have a [00:26:46] purpose. Your pain is not purposelessness. Your [00:26:51] pain has a purpose. And in my mind, the work of [00:26:56] the Lord is tied to delivering people from [00:27:01] brokenness, from hurt, from despair, and from mourning.RD Saunders: The work that the [00:27:06] Lord did in my life in that dorm room was a part of the Great [00:27:11] Commission just as surely as if I had been one to Christ. And friends, it's [00:27:16] important to see this too. Mourning isn't just because of the loss of a loved one [00:27:21] Mourning is because of sin. [00:27:26] Sin is the thing that kills. But sin kills [00:27:31] more than physical lives.RD Saunders: Sin kills [00:27:36] finances. Sin kills families. Sin kills marriages. [00:27:41] Sin kills friendships. Sin kills businesses. Sin kills [00:27:46] communities. Sin kills nations. And all of these [00:27:51] things are reasons for mourning. In fact, there's a very real metaphor [00:27:56] here of someone in sackcloth and ashes, and this was the picture of someone in mourning [00:28:01] and, and I Googled it the other day and the, the, the image that came up was a [00:28:06] person that was wearing kind of like a feed sack, a, a something made from jute that was [00:28:11] really rough and harsh on the skin.RD Saunders: And then that person was [00:28:16] covered all over from ashes, and the ashes would literally go through the holes in the [00:28:21] garment and stain their skin and rub their skin raw. And people who [00:28:26] were mourning would literally sit out in public and grieve and mourn. But [00:28:31] in the Bible, there are two or three instances of people in sackcloth and ashes who weren't [00:28:36] grieving a lost loved one.RD Saunders: One was grieving the brokenness of their [00:28:41] nationCurtis: Mm-hmm.RD Saunders: One was grieving an abuse where they had been, [00:28:46] where Tamar had been abused by her stepbrother Mordecai. And this [00:28:51] kind of pain, you see, is also a reason for mourning. There's [00:28:56] not just the mourning of a lost loved one, there's just the mourning of loss.RD Saunders: And [00:29:01] the enemy seeks to kill, steal, and destroy, and all those things cause [00:29:06] mourning. But the work of God in the world today is to [00:29:11] rescue and restore broken, hurting people who are in [00:29:16] mourning. It can't be any other way. It's directly tied to Jesus' own [00:29:21] messianic proclamation. And therefore, ladies and gentlemen, the work that you and I [00:29:26] are called to is exactly what Curtis is doing with this podcast.RD Saunders: We are [00:29:31] called to rescue the perishing and care for the dying, but it's not just about getting people saved. [00:29:36] It's about helping restore broken people. And what's so [00:29:41] exciting to me is once those people get planted in the right place by the, the Lord, [00:29:46] once they get in good soil, a soil of a good church or the soil of a good friend or [00:29:51] the soil of a great, uh, small group or the soil of a great podcast that helps [00:29:56] them, and they get their roots down, and as Zechariah tells us, their roots [00:30:01] grow to the water, to the source of nourishment.RD Saunders: They grow to where they're fed. They [00:30:06] become strong, mighty oaks of righteousness, not burdened down with [00:30:11] despair, not burdened down with brokenness and mourning, and they become these mighty [00:30:16] oaks of righteousness growing. And it says of them, this is so huge, don't miss [00:30:21] this. It doesn't just say they are oaks of righteousness.RD Saunders: It says [00:30:26] they are known as oaks of righteousness. This means that they have an [00:30:31] others orientation. It means they're influential. It means their [00:30:36] reputation is sterling and incredible, and because of that, [00:30:41] others say of them, what an amazing compliment, "That person's an oak of [00:30:46] righteousness." And of course, it doesn't just stop there, because in [00:30:51] verse four it says these now repaired, [00:30:56] restored people who have become oaks of righteousness, it says of them, [00:31:01] they will rebuild the ancient ruins And [00:31:06] restore the places long devastated.RD Saunders: They will renew the ruined [00:31:11] cities that have been devastated for generations. [00:31:16] Now restored, rebuilt, reclaimed, [00:31:21] redeemed people who have their roots down and who are growing up as [00:31:26] oaks of righteousness, they become the transformational force of [00:31:31] the world that transforms communities and cities and [00:31:36] states and nations and the world.RD Saunders: It is the calling of Christ on all of [00:31:41] us to be delivered from our mourning, delivered from our grief, [00:31:46] delivered from our brokenness, not to live with that anymore, but in fact, [00:31:51] to use that as a springboard to become an oak of righteousness, to put [00:31:56] our roots down in God's soil, to become somewhat... something alive and growing.RD Saunders: And [00:32:01] by the way, one thing that's true of an oak tree is it grows constantly. And friends, the [00:32:06] antidote for you to be living in grief all the time, grief [00:32:11] paralyzes you. It keeps you stuck. You don't keep growing. But if you're an [00:32:16] oak or if you're becoming an oak, you're gonna be growing every year, because when we cut one [00:32:21] down, what do we see?RD Saunders: Growth rings.RD Saunders: And they're growing all the time,[00:32:26] RD Saunders: and all the time. And so you gotta keep growing. And if you're growing, you got your roots down, you're [00:32:31] getting nourished, you're thriving, now you're able to rebuild the desolate [00:32:36] cities. You're able to be a force for transformation in the world. So yeah, you've been [00:32:41] broken, you've been hurt, but oh my, what an opportunity now you have to put your roots [00:32:46] down in the goodness of God and become a transformer in the world todayCurtis: [00:32:51] Buddy, I feel like calling timeout because my head is gonna explode. [00:32:56] I'm like,Curtis: I feel like, I feel like saying, "Timeout. Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa." There's [00:33:01] so much there. I have so many questions, and I know I can't ask all of them, [00:33:06] but wow. I, I mean, I understand what it means to [00:33:11] be stuck in grief. I've experienced that.Curtis: I know what it means to [00:33:16] be pulled out of grief, to have people come alongside you and literally, [00:33:21] in the best way possible, gently pray for you, lead you, help you, [00:33:26] come alongside at the right time and pull you out. But what you're talking about is so [00:33:31] much more than that, is this realization that my pain can [00:33:36] truly be turned into purpose,Curtis: and that God can grow [00:33:41] us and do works in us.Curtis: And, and, um, I've, I've talked about this before on the [00:33:46] podcast, and I'll just bring it up again. I... You cannot, it's not possible to [00:33:51] go look at some of the greatest CEOs on the planet, some of the greatest pastors, some of the greatest [00:33:56] evangelists, some of the greatest leaders, and every single one of them have a [00:34:01] tragic moment in their life.Curtis: But they have been [00:34:06] redeemed,Curtis: and something has happened in their life where that [00:34:11] thing was a launchpad to what God [00:34:16] actually had for them. And that's what you're describing. And you're using the Book of Isaiah and the Word of [00:34:21] God to show that it is true.Curtis: And I am just... [00:34:26] Yeah, I'm gonna listen to this a few times 'cause there's so much good stuff you just [00:34:31] shared.Curtis: But here's, here's where I wanna go because [00:34:36] I'm thinking of this poor little freshman who comes in from a [00:34:41] broken home and has stumbled into the doors because maybe they came for [00:34:46] soccer or for basketball or something. And they're coming into this fiery [00:34:51] president who's talking about making them an oak of righteousness to go change the [00:34:56] world and change all their hurt and grief and things that quite honestly, like you as a freshman, [00:35:01] haven't even dealt with, haven't even go- let themselves go to [00:35:06] and look at that junk drawer.Curtis: And here they are sitting in a chapel service with you [00:35:11] and they're like, "What in the world?" Talk about those kids, the kids that you're [00:35:16] impacting. You're... 'Cause I watch you. I love to watch you walk across your campus, shaking [00:35:21] hands, hugging, encouraging. Guys, I'm telling you, to watch it in [00:35:26] real life is, is actually life-changing.Curtis: So talk about those kids.[00:35:31] RD Saunders: Well, um, I tell you what, this was a revelation this year to [00:35:36] me. You would have thought with all the work I'd done to study Isaiah 61, I wouldn't have [00:35:41] needed such an aha moment, but we had a time of prayer. By the way, [00:35:46] prayer isn't, isn't a one-way dictation of what you need. [00:35:51] Prayer is a two-way conversation on how to solve it, and it's amazing to me the [00:35:56] number of times we just lay out our list and, "Hey, God," you know, as if we're giving God orders.RD Saunders: [00:36:01] It's just, it's just stunning to me the lack of humility sometimes or the lack of Curtis: Say [00:36:06] that again. Curtis: Say that again. A two-way communication to solve a problem, RD Saunders: Yeah, [00:36:11] it's not a Curtis: tell or ask Curtis: God to solve it for youRD Saunders: Yeah, it's not a one-way dictation [00:36:16] to God about our problems. It's a two-way conversation on how to solve them. Uh, C.S. [00:36:21] Lewis was, was famous for saying, " I don't pray because it changes things. I pray because it [00:36:26] changes me." And sometimes the solution isn't what we think it is.RD Saunders: We [00:36:31] pray for a solution we want rather than for the answer that [00:36:36] God might have. And, and sometimes, uh, sometimes the Lord just needs to change [00:36:41] us.RD Saunders: The issue isn't some outside circumstance. It's funny how we rarely look, "God, I'm, [00:36:46] it's me, it's me, it's me." We, we, we look at it's them, it's him, it's that place, it's that [00:36:51] job, it's that person, it's whatever, and, and honestly, it's us sometimes.RD Saunders: So I was [00:36:56] praying about this vision of, of Oaks of Righteousness. We have prayer walks on our [00:37:01] campus every week, and by the way, if you're in the Circleville area, you're welcome to join us. They're usually [00:37:06] on Wednesday. We meet at the fountain out there in front of the Maxwell Leadership Center, and [00:37:11] you'd-- we'd love to have you.RD Saunders: I'd love to see 1,000 people praying for OCU every Wednesday if I could [00:37:16] get it.RD Saunders: But, uh, i-it's at, right at, uh, um, noon. [00:37:21] Usually we're gathering about 11:45. There's a little thing I'll share, and then we'll pray [00:37:26] together, and then the cafeteria's right there, and we can, we can go eat if we want to, and it works out [00:37:31] great.RD Saunders: Uh, if the weather's bad, we just move into the lobby of, of the Maxwell Center. [00:37:36] Uh, but one of the things that happened during that prayer time, you know, and I'd been telling [00:37:41] people to make sure you listen when you pray. And so I'm praying about this Oaks of Righteousness [00:37:46] thing, and man, did I ever come under conviction.RD Saunders: So much so [00:37:51] that I quit praying and went and sat in my car and just tried [00:37:56] to process what the Lord had told me, and here's what God told me. He said, "You [00:38:01] think you're raising up oaks of righteousness. You're fooling yourself. You've just [00:38:06] made it a motto. You just made it a saying. You have not intentionally..."RD Saunders: And [00:38:11] people are gonna be shocked to hear this, but this is what I was told because I have a [00:38:16] process. I have a working partner that is an AI agent called Claude. Many of you are [00:38:21] very familiar with Claude. And I work through things that I'm trying to [00:38:26] understand better, trying to know how to solve.RD Saunders: I work through those with Claude, and [00:38:31] it's amazing. It's an incredible tool, and I know there's some concerns about AI. I get it, [00:38:36] but honestly, every new thing had people concerned about it when it came along, [00:38:41] and then it became the way life happened, and AI's probably gonna be that way, too. Let's [00:38:46] just take the, the meat and throw out the bones, use the, the best of it, and, and that's what I try to [00:38:51] do.RD Saunders: And I'm telling you, the understanding that I've gotten, the Lord said to me, [00:38:56] "You haven't even taken time to run this Oaks of Righteousness thing through Claude to [00:39:01] see how's the best way to implement this on campus." And, and the Lord was saying, "You did it [00:39:06] with everything else And so I sat down for several hours.RD Saunders: It's amazing [00:39:11] how much content you can get in just a few hours of time with, with something like this. I [00:39:16] was cut to the heart because what I realized needed to happen is something we're [00:39:21] currently working on,RD Saunders: what we've figured out and come to understand is [00:39:26] that we cannot count on chapel services alone because [00:39:31] chapel services are often a place of motivation, but they aren't necessarily the [00:39:36] toolbox where you can literally work on these things and help people deal [00:39:41] with them.RD Saunders: That is the small group. And so my [00:39:46] team and I are taking this year at Ohio Christian University, I, I wanted to pull [00:39:51] the lever on that right away, and man, I was like loaded for bear and going after it. [00:39:56] And my, my wonderful provost, Dr. Krista Stonerock, she said, "RD, I really think it's [00:40:01] so good that we've gotta take time and do it right.RD Saunders: And, and we'll capture those students from [00:40:06] this year that have come in. Don't worry about it. We'll get 'em." And, and so what I did was I humbled [00:40:11] myself to my provost and said, "You know, I think you're right. I'm getting ahead of myself." [00:40:16] Guilt can make you do things, and I was probably feeling guilt that I hadn't done a better job implementing this.[00:40:21] RD Saunders: And so what we're doing is we're taking a year, we're putting together a select team of [00:40:26] professors and administrators, along with some students, and we are crafting a [00:40:31] roundtable small group curriculum called [00:40:36] Ashes to Beauty,RD Saunders: with the idea being that [00:40:41] we want to-- We-- Here's the thing: every single student, [00:40:46] every single human has ashes.RD Saunders: Even if a student has grown up in [00:40:51] the most pristine, godly Christian home, for all have sinned [00:40:56] and fallen short of God's glory. That means for all have ashes. [00:41:01] And if they haven't had ashes, they, i- in the sense of having abuse or [00:41:06] having loss or anything like that They have areas of their life [00:41:11] where they're likely to create ashes because they don't understand [00:41:16] how to serve God well.RD Saunders: And so it's not just a thing that happened to you, [00:41:21] it's a thing that you're not doing or you're not doing well enough, and therefore, [00:41:26] there are ashes in your wake. It could be in relationships and how you're treating others. It [00:41:31] could be in whether or not you're following God's calling on your life. But you are [00:41:36] becoming a source of ashes in other people's life. So regardless, [00:41:41] they, they've gotta be developed. And, and so really how I see the, uh... And, and I must [00:41:46] confess, I, I don't have a completely, uh, put-together answer to [00:41:51] this, Curtis. I'm in the discovery phase, and that's because I've humbled myself and said, [00:41:56] "I'm gonna do it right if I'm gonna do it." But here's what I have come to glean.RD Saunders: [00:42:01] Initially, we have to get people to own and understand [00:42:06] their ashes. That's where it starts. You know, if someone's like, "Well, I, I'm [00:42:11] not that person. I don't need that," well, well, then we got a problem because the person who [00:42:16] doesn't need training is a person who will be sitting through it, enduring it, and not [00:42:21] benefiting from it.RD Saunders: And so, a- and, and besides, it's not like they don't have other [00:42:26] things they have to learn and other time they need to spend. Many of our students are athletes, so they've got their sports [00:42:31] time they've gotta have. They wanna have some time to, you know, spend time with their students. So if we're [00:42:36] gonna add a piece, it better be highly meaningful, and it better be very effective.RD Saunders: [00:42:41] And so what we've come to understand is that that maybe just that [00:42:46] first year is helping students identify [00:42:51] what are the ashes. And, and thankfully, I have one of the finest, uh, [00:42:56] team of people who work in psychology. Uh, our, our Dean of the [00:43:01] School of Social and Behavioral Sciences, Dr. Sylvia McDonald, is outstanding.RD Saunders: [00:43:06] All of her professors are fantastic. So we have experts in [00:43:11] that arena who are gonna be helping to guide the actual emotional side of [00:43:16] this, the side that isn't necessarily spiritual. You know, if you break your arm, you [00:43:21] don't just sit there and pray about it. You go get a cast. And, and the same is true with [00:43:26] any kind of psychological, um, sociological issue that a [00:43:31] person has is, is yes, Jesus can heal and transform, but, [00:43:36] but sometimes you need to talk to someone with skin on, so to speak.RD Saunders: You know, you need to talk to a human [00:43:41] being who, who can help you through it. By the way, all of us have [00:43:46] to recognize that one of the first assignments we all have is to [00:43:51] help other people carry their grief Uh, if you look at that [00:43:56] passage in Isaiah 61, if this is the work of the Messiah and we are his servants, [00:44:01] how can we divorce ourselves from helping others through their grief?Curtis: I mean, yep[00:44:06] RD Saunders: Uh, not just if we've been someone who's dealt with grief and therefore we've gotta somehow give back. [00:44:11] I'm just saying it's the work of, uh, of the ministry. It, it's the work we've all been [00:44:16] called to. So all of us have to help our young people identify their grief [00:44:21] and identify their ashes. It could, it could be just a little bit.RD Saunders: It could be a great [00:44:26] big pile of it, but we, we've gotta help them. Curtis: a side note, Curtis: I, I, y- I couldn't [00:44:31] help but write that part down because, um, when you step out and do something like [00:44:36] a podcast or something like that, uh, or even have a conversation with somebody who's [00:44:41] going through grief and you've been through it, you become this lightning rod. And I think so many [00:44:46] people in the Christian, especially in the Christian world, correct me if I'm wrong, [00:44:51] just because you've been through something doesn't make you an expert to help [00:44:56] somebody else.Curtis: There is a process. And, and [00:45:01] to, and to say that I'm an expert in grief and I can help everybody in grief is [00:45:06] a- is such a fallacy. I can't. But my goal [00:45:11] through this is to help connect you with people who can, which is why I've got somebody like you [00:45:16] online. We're, we're trying to come together as a community and say, "God [00:45:21] has a purpose.Curtis: There is a plan. He, He really wants to help you right where you're at." [00:45:26] But man, I've got a whole page of notes already. This is so, so good and so rich. [00:45:31] But you are beginning to answer the question of why in the world God [00:45:36] called you to this institution, and how you're going to help these young [00:45:41] people and help them become true oaks of righteousness.Curtis: So keep [00:45:46] going.RD Saunders: Well, uh, honestly, Curtis, it's, it's a work in progress and, [00:45:51] and, uh, one of the things that all of us needs to do, you, you brought up something very, very important, [00:45:56] and that's having s- having humility and being teachable about how to deal with grief. [00:46:01] I'm not talking necessarily about our own, certainly our own, that's true, but we, we [00:46:06] can't assume that we really understand what someone has been through, [00:46:11] and one of the quickest ways to alienate them from us is to say to [00:46:16] them, "Well, I understand what you've been through." W- man, I don't know if [00:46:21] we, if we really do. I think we think we do, but we, we probably just [00:46:26] really don't. And man, you talkRD Saunders: about ending a conversation quickly. [00:46:31] Yes. I think it's okay to say something like, "You know, I've, I've been through some things [00:46:36] myself. I, I haven't been through exactly what you've been through, but I do have some understanding, but [00:46:41] help me understand what you're feeling."RD Saunders: Now you've instantly transformed that whole [00:46:46] thing into some arrogant almost understanding [00:46:51] to humble and teachable. And, uh, you know, I, I've heard John [00:46:56] Maxwell say 100 times that he who wins souls is wise. [00:47:01] And what that means is, is not that it's wise to win souls,RD Saunders: but the [00:47:06] person who has become successful at doing so is a person who has [00:47:11] become wise at doing so.RD Saunders: And the same thing is true in [00:47:16] dealing with people with grief. Those who do it all the time, who are [00:47:21] consistently working to reach and help someone, will grow wise at [00:47:26] how to do that. Uh, don't, don't ever assume you're wise on a subject if you're not. Make [00:47:31] sure that that person knows you're on their side first and that you're, you're teachable [00:47:36] on, on their particular situation, and that is just good EQ.RD Saunders: That's good E- E- y- goodCurtis: That's [00:47:41] so good. SoRD Saunders: emotional quotient to helping you help themCurtis: [00:47:46] That's good. RD Saunders: Yeah, Curtis: I'm excited for where you're going with this, and I'm excited for your [00:47:51] students. I, I wanna tell the audience that when I walk on campus, and I'll go over for [00:47:56] lunch or coffee or something, since you have arrived, there is an environment that you [00:48:01] cannot walk away and say, [00:48:06] "Wow, the environment is, is just different.Curtis: It's spirit-filled." [00:48:11] I've attended a chapel or two where I just, I walked away and said, "Man, and God is [00:48:16] doing a work here, and he's getting ready to do a deeper and bigger work." But Doc, we [00:48:21] could, we could talk for so long on a lot of these things, but I have to [00:48:26] go back. Please tell us about your wife. Please tell us about how you met [00:48:31] her and how she has influenced you and how she's a part of this ministry team.Curtis: I don't [00:48:36] wanna miss this opportunityRD Saunders: She is, um, I tell people all the time, [00:48:41] when Shelley walks in the room, it's like the sun came out. Uh, she is a [00:48:46] source of brightness, of joy, um, [00:48:51] sometimes of motivation. It's probably as much motivation in my case as it is [00:48:56] brightness and joy, whether I wanna be motivated or not, you [00:49:01] understand. But outside of Jesus, easily the greatest gift that I've ever received.[00:49:06] RD Saunders: Uh, Shelley, has a unique skill set. She [00:49:11] is a very strong leader, um, but she also is, [00:49:16] uh, someone who is one of the greatest friends. E- everywhere we go, [00:49:21] she just stockpiles friendships. And I think ladies sometimes are naturally better at [00:49:26] it than men are, and, and so she gets a tribe everywhere she [00:49:31] goes.RD Saunders: And, uh, and she's just a, a pied piper. People follow her, [00:49:36] and, uh, she's just... Like, we had this trunk or treat last year here on campus and, [00:49:41] and honestly, I'm like, "I don't think this is gonna work, but I'm going along with it, you know? I'm just, [00:49:46] I just am not sure." And I, I could not believe it. [00:49:51] There was like 1,500 people who came.RD Saunders: Cars were lined up like [00:49:56] Field of Dreams, you know, at the end of Field of Dreams when they were trying to get in. We had to have police, [00:50:01] you know, guide people in. It was crazy. And, and that's Shelley. She just, [00:50:06] she sees things where others don't and, and just has a gift of [00:50:11] seeing possibilities. Uh, she, she also is, is one of [00:50:16] the biggest reasons I'm here.RD Saunders: Um, I was worried about her. Uh, the, [00:50:21] the idea of leaving her tribe there, the home that we had built that was a truly beautiful [00:50:26] home. We had-- In fact, we had just built a swimming pool, and that pool wasn't a year old when we [00:50:31] moved. And so to, to leave that place, but most especially to leave our [00:50:36] sons and their wives and the potential of grandchildren.RD Saunders: Um, but when I was [00:50:41] praying about that, and then the Lord had given me Isaiah 61, I was worried about Shelley. And l- [00:50:46] the Lord literally said to me, "Do not worry about your wife." It's one of the... I [00:50:51] haven't always heard God audibly just tell me something, but that was one thing He told me. [00:50:56] Well, our plan was that we were gonna keep the house there, and because my job [00:51:01] involved travel, we, we could travel back and forth and see each other and so on.RD Saunders: But [00:51:06] eventually Shelley came to me And she said, "Honey, we need to sell [00:51:11] this house and completely invest and move in [00:51:16] to this new calling God has for us, and we need to give ourselves to it [00:51:21] completely."RD Saunders: And that was a great day for me [00:51:26] personally, but for this university, because that brought Shelley onto our team full [00:51:31] force, always here, and man, she is a force of nature on this [00:51:36] campus.RD Saunders: I've recently asked her to take a role that involves what I call [00:51:41] environments and culture. And the environment is about the physical [00:51:46] way things feel and look when you walk into a lobby or a classroom or a building. [00:51:51] And, and then culture is about how relationally [00:51:56] things look, how we are with each other.RD Saunders: And then Shelley has a, has a real [00:52:01] gift for understanding and communicating culture. And well, you know, th- [00:52:06] that's not how we do it. This is how we do it. You know, that's [00:52:11] not loving. This is how we're loving. That's not excellent. This is how we're excellent. A- [00:52:16] and so because of that and because of her natural leadership ability, [00:52:21] she, she can get people to do this stuff and love it, and it's just [00:52:26] something to behold, Curtis, as she works.RD Saunders: So I'veCurtis: And it's working because when I go on [00:52:31] campus and I can already see the differences just walking through buildings and things. And [00:52:36] so, you know, some people might call it the Chick-fil-A way. We're gonna call it the Yeah. [00:52:41] I love it. She'll love it too, Curtis. [00:52:46] It's a great idea.Curtis: No, it's so good. Yeah, I couldn't help for you [00:52:51] not to be able to share 'cause, um, the two of you together, and I already said this earlier, [00:52:56] are, are such a power couple. And I, I don't mean that, um, I don't [00:53:01] mean that pridefully. I mean just what God has put together. And, and God's [00:53:06] not going to call you to something that he's not gonna call her to.Curtis: And that's such [00:53:11] a... And, and, and we've seen the opposite happen. We've seen where that friction has happened in [00:53:16] people's lives, and, and, and it turned out veryCurtis: badly. And so man, I couldn't help but [00:53:21] have, have you share that moment. Um, the future of [00:53:26] OCU. I mean, you're a dreamer. you've got a lot of work ahead of you.RD Saunders: Yes, [00:53:31] sirCurtis: and we're trusting God for that. But, but just share a few minutes [00:53:36] of, man, what are some of the big things that you're planning [00:53:41] for in trying to put OCU on the map as this spiritual [00:53:46] influence in this dark world?RD Saunders: Well, I turned 61 recently, [00:53:51] Curtis, and, um, that 61 passage is, uh, in Isaiah is pretty [00:53:56] important to me, too. And, uh, so this is, uh, this may not [00:54:01] be astonishing at all, but I've put together a $61 million vision for[00:54:06] RD Saunders: OCU, and the idea being that I believe [00:54:11] that God is calling this university to an unbelievable [00:54:16] era of, of growth and impact because the Lord [00:54:21] knows that this world is desperately in need of Christian higher ed, [00:54:26] especially Christian higher ed that is not just developing students to have good GPAs [00:54:31] and not just to be, you know, nice, good Christian people, but to be world [00:54:36] changers, to be people who rebuild the desolate places, who restore the broken [00:54:41] areas and broken lives of the world.RD Saunders: And so I believe as we get this [00:54:46] place ready to become that, we're going to have more and more resources that enable us, the [00:54:51] resources of talent, the resources of money, the resources of creativity, uh, the [00:54:56] resources of connections. And, and doors are gonna continue to open because [00:55:01] we're doing what God has called us to do here.RD Saunders: And I will say, I, I've been [00:55:06] challenged recently to get over any doubts or fears about that [00:55:11] happening and just to put my head down and work to make it happen like it already has. And so that's what [00:55:16] I'm doing, and, uh, I, I have to, I have to borrow faith [00:55:21] sometimes, uh, because, you know, when you're leading it, it, it's, it's challenging, and there's...[00:55:26] RD Saunders: The enemy has no interest in that happening. I mean, just, just one young person who [00:55:31] becomes an oak of righteousness is a 50, 60-year thorn in his side [00:55:36] It, it's like the old oil well down in Logan, Ohio, where my family's from. I [00:55:41] drove by it the other day, and I remember driving by it as a kid, riding, I wasn't driving, I was just a [00:55:46] kid, and it was pumping oil.RD Saunders: And I saw it here just recently, some 50 years [00:55:51] later, and that oil well is still pumping away. And a young life that has [00:55:56] become an oak of righteousness is a life that is pumping out [00:56:01] transformation all over the world, not just in the m- the men and women called to ministry from [00:56:06] this university who serve as pastors and missionaries and so on, but also men and [00:56:11] women working in what would be called a secular assignment, uh, who, while [00:56:16] they're there, they're living for Christ, they're modeling Christ to others, and they're helping [00:56:21] bring the love and light of Christ to those who are hurting and broken in their worlds.[00:56:26] RD Saunders: Uh, we, we need both of those, and I believe that's what God has called this university to [00:56:31] become, and He is gonna send us people who are gonna hear this message and say, "Listen, I'm [00:56:36] all in. I gotcha. Let's go together." And we're looking for those kind of folks who [00:56:41] believe with us that this is an opportunity for us to truly become the salt [00:56:46] and light of this world.RD Saunders: Salt makes things better. Light makes things brighter. And that's [00:56:51] what we've got to be at Ohio Christian University, and He's gonna help us do it.Curtis: I love it. I love [00:56:56] it. And here's my promise to you. Having worked at the university for almost 20 years, uh, [00:57:01] I know a lot of alumni, and I'm gonna get this podcast in so many of their [00:57:06] texts and so many of their emails and so many of their Facebook Messengers because I [00:57:11] want, I want people to feel like they have a president who [00:57:16] understands them, who wants what's best for this university, and who wants to not only [00:57:21] represent the Lord and his purpose for the ministry, but I want them to [00:57:26] realize that they too can be a part of that vision.RD Saunders: Oh, yeah. Curtis, you, buddy. We're gonna help [00:57:31] l- Curtis: AbsolutelyRD Saunders: one more little vision? And that is, I believe that our, [00:57:36] university has to be a personal force for Christ in this community, [00:57:41] in the city of Circleville, the surrounding cities, the Pickaway County, the whole region and [00:57:46] state. To do that, one of the things that I feel very led to [00:57:51] do is the planting of what we're calling Oaks Church.RD Saunders: We're gonna be launching a church [00:57:56] on campus. It's on campus, but it's not necessarily for the campus. It's for the [00:58:01] community. It's for our students, too, who would be welcome in any church [00:58:06] because they're a part of the community. And as such, we're literally [00:58:11] going to build a church designed to raise up oaks of righteousness [00:58:16] within our community.RD Saunders: And it's my hope in the next 10 years, through things like [00:58:21] Oaks Church, through the individual ministry of our students, and through the specific work of the [00:58:26] students of OCU going out into the community to raise up 10,000 oaks of [00:58:31] righteousness among our students, among the people in the community, and everywhere our students [00:58:36] reach, to see us raise up 10,000 oaks of righteousness that are [00:58:41] bringing transformation to the world.RD Saunders: That's, that's our vision, and Oaks Church is a part [00:58:46] of it. We're not interested in seeing church people come from other churches to this church. We wanna see [00:58:51] all the churches in the community blessed and growing and thriving, but we wanna be [00:58:56] here as a force for good and for God in this community.Curtis: I love it. [00:59:01] I love it.RD Saunders: November the 8th is our first SundayCurtis: I'm gonna write that down, November the [00:59:06] 8th. We will help you put that out on social and so forth [00:59:11] as well. Man, I just have this sneaky suspicion this isn't the last time we're gonna [00:59:16] do this.RD Saunders: Well, Curtis: goal is that we get, we get to do this [00:59:21] again because it's so rich and there's so much.Curtis: I've got some good notes out of this. [00:59:26] Um, you have helped me today Curtis: [00:59:31] to become even more fearless, to become even more bold. [00:59:36] You know, I, I kinda hung the hat up on this thing for a few months because it is hard. You [00:59:41] know, I do some hard interviews with some people who have gone through some really, really tough [00:59:46] stuff, and it's draining.Curtis: I mean, there's some days I'll do a hard interview and I'll go to bed because [00:59:51] it's triggering. It brings up a lot of the grief and things that I've been through. But man, over and [00:59:56] over and over the last few months, God has put certain people like you in my path, in my [01:00:01] way and said, "This is what God's calling you to do.Curtis: Go out and be a [01:00:06] force and do it for His kingdom." And so I'm, I-- Once again, I'm inspired. Thank [01:00:11] you for doing this. And I'm gonna ask you to do... We, we have a tradition on the [01:00:16] podcast where either I'll pray us out or ask a guest to pray us out, and pray specifically for [01:00:21] those people who are listening and hearing it, um, that whatever they're going [01:00:26] through, man, there is a God who loves and cares for them and wants to do a mighty work in their life.Curtis: [01:00:31] But before I, but before I have you pray us out, let me just give a little commercial. Folks, if this [01:00:36] podcast has helped you in any way, if there's somebody you need to [01:00:41] share it with, I'm begging you, please like, subscribe, share it with your [01:00:46] friends, with your family. Um, it's on all the platforms,Curtis: if you [01:00:51] wanna find more about the podcast, you can go to RunToTheHard.com. And then if you're [01:00:56] even more inspired and say, "You know what? The Lord has, has put on my heart to help support this ministry," [01:01:01] uh, RunToTheHard.com/give is our foundation in honor of [01:01:06] my late wife Michal.Curtis: It's called the Michal Foundation. There's a dropdown there where you can give to [01:01:11] support the podcast or the foundation. The foundation literally exists [01:01:16] to help widows and orphans. We, over the last few months, we've given thousands of [01:01:21] dollars away to help get moms back on their feet with the loss of a husband or husbands or [01:01:26] vice versa, or kids, or send a much, a family that have gone through a terrible [01:01:31] tragedy on a vacation, or buy a headstone, or help with funeral costs.Curtis: And so, [01:01:36] um, that's what we're doing. That's what this is all about, and we're grateful for those who [01:01:41] participate. We would love to be on your prayer list. If you go to RunToTheHard.com, at the bottom of [01:01:46] every single page you can actually click the link that says that you could get our, uh, our [01:01:51] email. Just throw your email in there.Curtis: You can get reminders of podcasts that are coming up, as [01:01:56] well as opportunities to hear stories like this. And so, man, buddy, [01:02:01] thank you. Curtis: I'm telling you, I was looking forward to this all week long 'cause I [01:02:06] knew I would benefit from it. And so, um, if you got a minute to share, [01:02:11] and then I want you to pray us out, okay?RD Saunders: Oh, you're so very kind, my friend. Thank you. [01:02:16] I have to confess to you, I have been so blessed to be a part of this, Curtis. [01:02:21] Let me tell you, buddy, you're a warrior. You are a warrior, [01:02:26] and I'm so proud to call you my friend. Thank you also for the way [01:02:31] you've been so kind to OCU. Thank you also for the years of service you put in here.RD Saunders: [01:02:36] I stand on your shoulders every day, Curtis, so thank you, my friend, for [01:02:41] who you are and what you mean the world to so many of us, and we all admire [01:02:46] and love you. And everyone on this podcast, you should count yourself blessed [01:02:51] that Curtis Christopher is in your life. I know I do. Let's pray together.RD Saunders: Heavenly Father, we know that [01:02:56] you are the God of all comfort, and I pray right now in that life that's just so hurting [01:03:01] and broken that you'd reach down and bring healing. Help them like that, that man that [01:03:06] Jesus healed to be able to answer the question, "What do you want me to do for you?" Help them to [01:03:11] be able to say, "Lord, I don't want to be so overwhelmed by grief that I can't [01:03:16] function and serve you and serve others."RD Saunders: And Lord, would you pick them up in that moment [01:03:21] and position them to go and serve others? Help them to get their roots down [01:03:26] somewhere that nourishes them and feeds them and makes them strong again, [01:03:31] not, not bent over and nearly broken like a sapling, but growing and [01:03:36] strong and thriving like an oak of righteousness.RD Saunders: And then, Lord, show them the [01:03:41] desolate places, the, the broken places that they can go and serve. It [01:03:46] could be a neighbor. It could be a family member. It, it could be a loved one, Lord. It could be [01:03:51] someone that, that maybe they don't even know yet that you're gonna bring into their path. [01:03:56] Open their eyes to see, Lord, and open their heart to serve, and open their hands to [01:04:01] give.RD Saunders: I pray especially for this ministry. Lord, would you send them followers [01:04:06] and listeners who hit like and do all those things so that they're a part of the community? Will [01:04:11] you send them those, Lord, that could eventually be helped by it? Would you send those [01:04:16] who could be people on the podcast? And Lord, I pray that you will [01:04:21] open up and send out of the blessings of heaven resources into this [01:04:26] podcast and bless them in every way.RD Saunders: Thank you for Curtis Christopher and [01:04:31] Run to the Heart and all of those who've gone on before us that have brought us to this moment. And [01:04:36] bless this work in Christ's name. Amen.Curtis: Amen. [01:04:41] Thanks, buddyRD Saunders: Amen. Thank you

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